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    I was stood up by an old hommie in virginia beach today How the fuck do I deal with that? -____-

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    With a gun. :V
    Nah but seriously, that's tough shit. Did he/she do it willingly or was it an honest mistake? If this person did it on purpose, then just don't associate with them :V
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    Legba says fuckit! lol
    Honestly, the best way to deal with that type of thing is to do your damnedest not to appear to be too upset and just stop talking to this "hommie". Don't lash out at them, and don't even bother trying to contact him/her. But if they try to contact you, don't ignore them, but seem disinterested. Give them lame excuses not to chill. This will trigger their guilt then they'll wanna hangout & maybe even talk about it....Unless you're really close, then just ask em what the deal is lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Legba View Post
    Legba says fuckit! lol
    Honestly, the best way to deal with that type of thing is to do your damnedest not to appear to be too upset and just stop talking to this "hommie". Don't lash out at them, and don't even bother trying to contact him/her. But if they try to contact you, don't ignore them, but seem disinterested. Give them lame excuses not to chill. This will trigger their guilt then they'll wanna hangout & maybe even talk about it....Unless you're really close, then just ask em what the deal is lol.
    So passive aggressive. If you're tight with them, tell them you're upset. The "I'm gonna act kinda distant but not super pissed but kinda stand-offish" approach rarely yields anything other than more tension. Either forgive and forget, or man up and let them know you were pissed.
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    --> "I wont give up my real friends just to play that game alone at home with headphones on, isolated from social contacts. Why did u (EA) had to ruin a game that hard? Did someone just poop in your cereals? Are we to blame for this action? "

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    Make up sex. Nuff said...

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    Or yeah, make up sex.
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    --> "I wont give up my real friends just to play that game alone at home with headphones on, isolated from social contacts. Why did u (EA) had to ruin a game that hard? Did someone just poop in your cereals? Are we to blame for this action? "

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    Quote Originally Posted by madsser View Post
    Make up sex. Nuff said...
    we still dont know if its a guy or a chick. but then again i dont know the op. so yea i third this.

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    This hommie is a chick :/ haha kinda liked her


    ahhh sweet sweet memories >: )

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    Quote Originally Posted by BeatChemist View Post
    So passive aggressive. If you're tight with them, tell them you're upset. The "I'm gonna act kinda distant but not super pissed but kinda stand-offish" approach rarely yields anything other than more tension. Either forgive and forget, or man up and let them know you were pissed.
    Yeah dude, that's exactly what it is. I personally always say shit straight up, but honestly...it usually doesn't bring such great results. Directness often scares people for some stupid reason, unless you know each other well enough....which we both already mentioned.....
    Last edited by Legba; 08-13-2012 at 09:08 PM.
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